4 Common Mistakes in Making Love

Islam is a religion that syâmil mutakamil. He did not let any area of life unless there tuntunannya; sometimes the rules in general and sometimes very detailed. And Islam-both general as well as rinci- a perfect teachings.

Even when setting the marital relationship aka sex. Islam provides guidance and adab-adabnya. So that engrossing work that it is also a reward field. Not just a biological need to pass, but he also reap spiritual blessing.

However, often times couples make a 'mistake' by not keeping the adab-adab and the running of the guidance. Among them, there are four common mistakes as follows:
 
1. Do not pray before doing so

Many husbands and wives whose origins do without preceded by prayer. In fact, the Prophet taught every couple to pray when we want to start the activity. The prayer is:

بسم الله اللهم جنبنا الشيطان وجنب الشيطان ما رزقتنا
"In the Name of Allah, Ya Allah! Keep us from Satan and keep Satan in order not to disturb what (the child) that you bestowed upon us "(HR. Bukhari and Muslim)
When husband and wife read the prayer, he has started a favor by mentioning the name of Allah so that what they do is recorded as deeds. Moreover, if God predestined to have descended from these activities, God willing, his son will not be harmed by Satan.

أما إن أحدكم إذا أتى أهله وقال بسم الله اللهم جنبنا الشيطان, وجنب الشيطان ما رزقتنا. فرزقا ولدا, لم يضره الشيطان
Indeed, when one of you (before) to his wife to pray "Bismillaahi Alloohumma jannibnasy syaithoona wajannibisy syaithoona rozaqtanaa maa" then God mengkaruniakan child, then he (the child) will not be harmed by Satan. (HR. Bukhari)

لو أن أحدهم إذا أراد أن يأتى أهله قال باسم الله, اللهم جنبنا الشيطان, وجنب الشيطان ما رزقتنا, فإنه إن يقدر بينهما ولد فى ذلك, لم يضره شيطان أبدا
If any one of you wants to his wife prayed "Bismillaahi Alloohumma jannibnasy syaithoona wajannibisy syaithoona rozaqtanaa maa" then if God predestined to have a child through intercourse that, then he (the child) will not be jeopardized by the devil forever. (HR. Bukhari and Muslim)


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