Because of the instinct that there was a tendency of men to women and women to men. Not only the tendency of the liver, but also the tendency of lust. To exalt human dignity lift to make it more respectable Allah made a rules and regulations as the embodiment of this instinct that is marriage.
Married for God
"There were four cases which includes the Sunnah of the Apostles: a sense of shame, wear fragrances, bersiwak, and get married." (HR. At-Tirmidhi)
In one of his saying of the Prophet Muhammad willed that marriage is Sunnah of the Apostles, in another hadith the Prophet Muhammad also said that marriage is the consummation of a book of hadith ash-Shahiihah that dihasankan by Shaykh al-descendants:
"If a slave married, then he has perfected the half of his religion; therefore he should fear Allah for the remaining half. "
While Allah ordered married to his servants as stated in Surat an-Nur, verse 32:
And kawinkanlah people who alone among you, and decent people (spouse) of servants sahayamu that men and servants were female sahayamu. If they are poor, Allah will make them capable of with his grace ... "
That's a fraction of Allah and His messenger command concerning marriage, it is clear that marriage is a worship that God indeed suggest. Something that was initially forbidden even haram to be halal and kosher plentiful through the perfect reward after a wedding ceremony, that is the beauty of marriage. There is a reward of goodness in every second of obedience to her husband and a wife there is also a reward goodness in every second of the love of a husband to his wife.
About love
Love, yes sometimes that is the start of a test in a marriage. Being a joy indeed for those who Allah arrange a meeting when it has a tendency taste before the wedding especially in times of waiting that they both maintain heart and myself (without activity dating). Maybe we will be remembering the love story of Ali - Fatima finally met in the marriage and after marriage they realized that it turns alike have harbored love.
Love, can not be separated from any relationship between two human beings, male and female. Because love is the energy that makes the knot that ties became stronger, making the energy mutual service between couples is increasing-rising, making a household seemed happy energy that gave birth. Yes, love is able to change everything, because he comes from maha everything.
If the episodes of the life of Ali and Fatimah tells how God arrange a meeting between two human beings are alike harbored love. Now we turn to another story, the two people who do not know, even they are alienated from each other. One was a man that ugly-looking, black skin is even a dirty appearance and poor is also his life, but he had a precious pearl and even priceless is obedience to Allah and His messenger.
Through the intermediary of Prophet Muhammad Allah male arrange a meeting with a girl, the Prophet offered this man a girl. And, incredible girl who previously did not know the men we tell Issuer accept only by reason of the great, because the man is a choice of the Prophet Muhammad, he loves the Prophet and that he loves men Prophet chose, as simple as that he mencinta ,
Sometimes depressing if we look at the reality of today, when the fliers apparently many excuses delays married one of them is a pretext to postpone because it has not met with the beloved, fear after marriage can not be love, not worry if married without love then nobody will be happy as well as various pretexts similar.
My friends all, marriage is the worship of God and his prophet commanded. And love is not one of the requirements to start a marriage, just obedience, and obedience are united in the bonds of marriage Hopefully with God's permission would give birth to a beautiful love. Easy to grow in love for God in your heart, it is easy for Allah sow love in the hearts of your mate, enough love Allah, His messenger love and get married as a form of love Allah and His Messenger, then wait love between kalianpun will grow, InshaAllah. [Uda Agus / Elmina]
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